I Broke Up with Him and I Want Him Back, What Should I Do?
It happens to us women from time to time. We break up with a guy only to end up knowing that ‘I want him back!’ What do you do in these sorts of situations? I know you probably feel a bit like your tail is between your legs right now, but read on and you’ll see how you can overcome this mistake.
Q: I broke up with him and I want him Back! Should I get him back?
A: First of all, make sure that you really do want him back. It isn’t going to do either of you good to get into some kind of on-again-off-again relationship. All that will do is result in a lot of drama and lead to frustration and resentment.
Chances are good that you broke up with him for a reason. What was that reason, and what has fundamentally changed since then? If you can’t answer this question, then getting back together may not be the best idea.
Q: I broke up with him and I want him back, but he’s seeing someone new. Does this mean it’s over?
A: If he is in a rebound relationship, that can be troubling for you if you want him back, but realize that most rebound relationships don’t work out.
You see, everyone needs a little bit of time to ‘decompress’ from a relationship before they move onto another one. You need to work out your feelings and try to find your own happiness and independence before getting involved with a new person.
Your ex is no different. If he is seeing someone else, it is only a matter to time before all of his unresolved feelings spill over onto his new relationship.
In the meantime, just focus on being the best person you can be and he’ll notice this (trust me). Don’t act petty or try out stupid mind games or anything like that. He’ll start to think that leaving you was a mistake if you act like a mature woman who has her act together.
Q: I broke up with him and I want him back, does this make me look stupid?
A: No, of course not! We all make mistakes in life and sometimes it is through those mistakes that we realize what we truly want in life.
It doesn’t make you look stupid or weak for wanting to be back together with your ex boyfriend. Just make sure you learned the value of the relationship and you don’t take it for granted in the future.
Understand why you broke up with him in the first place so that you can address this problem so that it doesn’t tear your relationship apart again.
So those are a few of the questions about what to do when you break up with a guy but decide later ‘I want him back’. As long as you have a real understanding about why the break up happened in the first place, you can take actions to make sure that you don’t repeat the break up moving forward.
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