Q&A – My Boyfriend Doesn’t Love Me, What Can I Do?
A: It is normal to have disagreements, however when they occur all the time it is possible that the relationship is not a healthy one. Maybe the two of you need to split ways and cut your losses. If this is the case, try not to beat your self up about it. People are different and may grow apart. It is no one’s fault; it is just what happens sometimes over the course of time.
Q: I think my boyfriend doesn’t love me and says he wants to date other people. What should I do?
A: It is one thing if he said this once. Everyone says things they do not mean sometimes. However, if he repeatedly says that he wants to see other people, maybe it is worth having a conversation about. Ask him if this is truly his desire, and then ask him why. He may not be able to articulate why very well, but maybe he is not satisfied with something about the relationship. It may be a simple change you can make to help him fall back in love with you. Communication is very important in this situation.
Q: I think my boyfriend doesn’t love me and I am very depressed about it. How am I ever going to get through this?
A: First of all, he only does not love you if he has specifically said he does not love you. You should ask yourself if you are blowing something out of proportion. The only thing you can do in this situation is to talk to him. Ask him if he still loves you. While this may sound clingy, everyone needs reassurance every now and then.
Q: I think my boyfriend doesn’t love me but I am pretty sure he is just in a bad mood these days. How should I handle this?
A: It sounds like your boyfriend may be going through a slight depression. Maybe he has a lot on his mind or has started a new job. Cut him some slack. You should encourage him to talk about his feelings with you. Ask him how his day went. Cook him a nice dinner and buy him his favorite beer. You should encourage him to see a counselor or to take some time out for himself. Allow him to spend some time with the guys.
Q: I think my boyfriend doesn’t love me because he is constantly looking at other girls and checking them out right in front of me. I am afraid to say anything for fear he might get mad and dump me. Is this normal behavior for a guy?
A: It is often hard for girls to understand that just because your man is checking out other women does not mean he doesn’t love you. It just means he is a guy. Guys love to appreciate beautiful women, but that is all. If your boyfriend takes it further such as asking the girl out for a drink, then you may have reason to worry.
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